Your Opinion please.

[Aliayah]

Salamu Alaykum warahMatulahe Walbarakatu,

I have 1 question and i just wanted to ask you to help me out if you know which is the best for me.
I still go to a Kafir school which i really hate.
Then i heard a new Islamic School opened in Seattle for girls and boys. I was happy. But not for long. My mom could not pay and others in my family disincourage me abt the place. I trust that they only want what is best for me Academicly, but what abt religiously? They say its not good enough. But they haven't been there. And now my mom says i can go b/c she can pay now.

Sholud i go? Please help me out.

O and another question is...is it right for a muslim guy and girl to get to know each other over the phone? Or not?

[Ron]

Salam Aliayah,

I still go to a Kafir school which i really hate.

My dear sister a humble suggestion of mine is for you to reconsider this way of thought. The word "kafir" is quite strong as you know it and one only is a kafir if they conceal the Truth by openly rejecting the Truth. They would do this knowingly. A kafir and a non-Muslim is not the same. If you hate the school because you are amongst non-Muslims then you should go somewhere else. If you hate it because you regard the people there as kuffar then if you take my humble suggestion then that school won't seem so bad.

Sholud i go? Please help me out.

You should attend a school for its credentials and academic position. You want the best for yourself even if it is an a non-Islamic institution. If you want religious learning then you may want to invest in a personal teacher that you see fit. The decisions you make should be based on wise consideration.

O and another question is...is it right for a muslim guy and girl to get to know each other over the phone? Or not?

You would need to expound on that a bit more before it can be addressed.

Regards

[Aliayah]

Salam,

Im sorry for the use of that word. I didn't know what you just explianed to me, Jazakumlah Khair.
I don't dislike anyone here, it's just I am not comftable here thats all.
Thanks for your help Ron.

salams.