Striking women allowed according to the Quran?

[jezubela]

Im not muslim. I am just reading the Quran for the first time trying to understand Islam:

4:34
...But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand.

What does this mean by "arrogance" and why is it ok to strike your wife?

[Spiderman]

Salaam.

That verse and a few related ones have been explained in great detail by brother ihsan in the thread below.

Beating Women 4:34

[jezubela]

Thank you!

[Spiderman]

You're welcome.

If you still have a question, or are confused about something, feel free to ask. No problem.

[jezubela]

Oh, I just started reading, so I'm sure I'll have a bunch! Again, thanks so much for your help