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[muhammadsingh]

Assalaamu alaykum

hi everyone , i am a new muslim Can any one help me please ? I am going through a huge problem in my life.
i had an affair with a muslim girl we both love each other from almost ten years and we also decided to do nikaha (marriage)this years
everyone in our family were happy for our relationship as our relationship was lasted for last ten years.She also loves me a lot. we both stay in india.But now i am in Dubai from last 7 months and she was in india we both used to talk over the phone everyday.we did not had any kind of fight between us.but after few days when i called her she started fighting with me over the phone. All of sudden she started hating me i dont know why suddenly she got hatred towards me . And she stopped receiving my call anymore i got tensed and got back to india but i did not find her any where in india even her parents started ignoring me..and after a month i came to know that she is Dubai. And then i came back to Dubai,and found her ,I went to meet her..And she was behaving completely in a different way like she started shouting at me saying that i don't want to keep any kind of relation with you,I don't want to see your face ,Go away from here.....This things she has never told me before.Like I found a complete hatred on her face towards me....i dont know whats going on with both of us...but i am totally in tension..she is even not ready to explain me nor giving any kind of reason for doing all this to me...
Please anyone help me in this situation because i am unable to concentrate on anything.always thinking about this situation .i dont know whats going on with my life...and she is list bothered for me. there was a time she used to love me a lot...but what happened to her.
Please i will be very thankful to anyone who can help out of this situation

[DocW]

It is very difficult to give an opinion after hearing one side of the story. As a general rule human beings are reasonable and rationale and if they behave in such a manner there has to be a reason behind it. You need to retrace your actions and verbal comments to see what you may have done to incite such a response. Alternatively try to contact someone who knows the family or your spouse and finds out for you what is the trigger behind her current reaction towards you.

You have not mentioned why your spouse has come to Dubai if not to be with you.

Has she come to know some thing about you that ahs triggered such a response as you have been alone and away from your spouse for a few months? is there another woman ?

Can I ask why have you chosen the name Muahmmad singh?

[muhammadsingh]

It is very difficult to give an opinion after hearing one side of the story. As a general rule human beings are reasonable and rationale and if they behave in such a manner there has to be a reason behind it. You need to retrace your actions and verbal comments to see what you may have done to incite such a response. Alternatively try to contact someone who knows the family or your spouse and finds out for you what is the trigger behind her current reaction towards you.

You have not mentioned why your spouse has come to Dubai if not to be with you.

Has she come to know some thing about you that ahs triggered such a response as you have been alone and away from your spouse for a few months? is there another woman ?

Can I ask why have you chosen the name Muahmmad singh?

Hi brother, singh is my last name but I have accepted Islam a year ago...and I was suggested a name (muhammad)..
she has come to dubai for job. BUT SHE doesn't WANT TO BE WITH ME ANY MORE WITH ANY REASON I DON't KNOW WHAT HAPPENED TO HER .HER SUDDEN BEHAVIER IS A STRANGE FOR ME ...I DON't KNOW WHAT TO DO FOR THIS.....I AM TOTAlly TENSED...